Why should a young woman want to be so careful about her planing and decisions in life, only to have the choices of her husband and divorce to destroy it? Why should a young man want to plan in every way only to watch his carrier and future be destroyed by their partner in life's poor decisions?

The freedom to divorce is neither a freedom for you or the culture we live in.

It is all about the other person isn't it? And yes we can both jump on that boat and say its all about the children, but consider first that our freedoms in life are completely dependent upon our neighbors willingness to treat us in a just fashion, isn't it true? And without a determination to go forward in life and refine our understanding of how we can treat others fairly, and justly, then as a leader, we have not gone out ahead and demonstrated our freedom to our neighbor or loved one, not even our children, by giving them the freedom they deserve. That freedom is given to others in the practice of common considerations towards others.

Yes, this is the great care that well count so much ladies, the discipline which well return in high rewards and value. And this is the way to lead your partner young men, by the demonstration of lending out the freedoms through a sense of tenderness in a joint sense of justice within your household.

Now once we've found this one which gives us a life worth living, do we start off trying to destroy this person?

The point to this paper is that we cannot hedge ourselves up in discipline by surrounding ourselves with all sorts of bad examples and with plenty of temptations by laws which allow us to begin considering other options the moment we're irritated.

To assume we cannot get along, is to plan to fail, and I'm certain this is why we fail so regularly, since the law allows us to divorce for any reason we want. And now since we have allowed ourselves to believe that divorce can be the solution for us if we can't get along, it appears another school of thought begins, "If we can't get along, we certainly need to give ourselves a way to escape, to leave ourselves a way to get out?" Only today this statement is getting less a question and more an assertion. For those who would speak up and say, we cannot allow ourselves the privilege to divorce whenever we want, therefore those whom appose would say, we must have this option! Like the privilege and the comfort of a pain revealing drug. And therefore we all stand by and watch our children dying for lack of hope. In the end, if allowed to divorce for any reason, we've predetermined to destroy our spouse, to mislead our children and to add to the ma ham of our country.

I'm concerned as to how many have not developed a sense of moral conscience toward those around them. In that without this concern, anyone who has ever decided to build in our culture and this does include our children, cannot help but consider after awhile the weight of the influence of the way others live around us upon our sense of being able to complete any of our goals. I find it no wonder, that we live in a world full of hopeless and depressed people, when considering that today most don't even know what the problem is.

When two young men and women come together they do so in order to have children and raise a family. Therefore isn't it true, they become one flesh? In the tender little bodies and souls of their own creation. Now when a whole world has gone astray what can we do to develop change immediately to safeguard these lovely little ones?

The question again is, why should the young man or the young woman want to divorce, when we are such intelligent and capable people in our ability to plan, discipline and set goals?

So if we set our eye's upon Christ, we train our eye upon a vision given through the Word of God, a vision of success for our families as well as our communities in example.