I am living with and dependant upon an individual who
has rage issues, we are neither married or intimately involved -
due to my prior circumstance he invited me to move in with him
and after much prayer I decided to do that.
While I do not regret my decision and
have been grateful to God for the provision, I have had to face
that he is abusive and I don't simply have the means to move
out.. When I moved out here I did not realize the extent of my
health issues or how REAL and damaging verbal abuse is to an individual.
He is not physically abusive, but
verbally abasing and I am at the end of my rope in dealing with the
out bursts and the blame placing. I know things are not going to change
and while the potential of our friendship coming to an end once seemed
unimaginable I've had to face that as he is,, he is only a negative influence
in my life..
I believe that my health is on an up swing and I am certain that my
emotional state is improving, my out look on life despite my current
circumstances is really good and that's not the norm for me, but a
true GIFT FROM GOD!!
He has bought foods and such that I like, but he knows I am not
eating and while I don't confront him, it's very apparent that I am being sabatoged.

Anyhow


I long for and desire a way out of my current living situation
and I NEED THE LORDS GUIDANCE AND DIRECTION, above all else,, because
I don't know what to do on my own...

ty dani
I appreciate all your replies to my posts, it REALLY HELPS

It sounds like you've come to the right decision. We'll be praying for you.

Who needs this guy?

Apparently you have been economically dependent upon him while PERHAPS he was hoping for a little more from you than friendship. His frustration over that issue might explain why he is resentful toward you.

I don't see your situation improving at this point, so the only answer is to find another place to live.

God grant you the means of escape, In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Shalom.

I just want to ty both for your replies and more over your prayers..

I believe that both of your responses were further confirmation
to the truth of what's going on and validation as to my decision...


Ty for standing in prayer with me
that GOD GRANT ME THE MEANS OF ESCAPE..

I moved in here by faith and I WILL LEAVE THE SAME WAY..

ty again

dani

Hi All,, Again...

I'm still living in the same situation, I've searched for a new place to live,
but as with all things, apart from God I can't do it in my strength.
Tonight I'm feeling uneasy --
I know this is the end of this ''acquaintance'' and this chapter in my life.
It's what I desire, but I've had to battle guilt, that it would
not be God's will for me to close the door, yet after much prayer and consideration
it's what I've decided & my minds made up on the matter.
I've told him as much, and he doesn't believe me, but upon
my leave - he won't have any say in my final choice and I will not be ''bullied''
or manipulated out of it.
I'm also being tempted to get ''weighed'' down over the unknown details of my future --
So instead of ''going there'' I'm writing -- and declaring:
"I JUST WILL NOT GIVE INTO THAT!!!" : )

I ask you to pray for God's perfect timing for this to happen and for it to be a smooth
and peaceful transition..
He's preparing to move
out of here in July & he's expecting me to move with him, regardless of what I've said.
I've asked God for
a door to open and I'm searching for that door.
Please pray that I will have the wisdom both to see it and to act accordingly when it does.

Moving with him is not an option &
and as I'm asking for a new residence that is what I'm standing for in faith.

As I've shared, I've searched and have even found some very suitable places,
but apart from God acting I can't make it happen on my own --

please stand in faith with me, and ALL THE GLORY AND PRAISE WILL BE TO THE KING..

ty..
grace-fully ~d

ty for this site God Bless all your labor!!

I'm praying for you!

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