Hi Frances, I am sorry about your lost. When I lost my grandmother whom also portrayed my mom in my life , I was also lost and did not know what to do. Someone said to me she had started the family and I had to understand she would go first and that she would always be alive in me. Then they asked me could you imagine living through the death of your child ??? I had no answer except Oh no I want to go first, and that answered my question. Although harsh and sometimes not correct I knew it was her turn to go and God would be there to comfort me. And with time I have never forgotten my grandmother I just remember her with happiness instead of pain..Give yourself some time to mourn, and as time passes it gets easier and pray for comfort........ Good luck to you
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Connie
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