Raquel2018,I'm not married and have never been, so I may not be able to dispense the best advise, but I think you need to talk to a therapist/psycologist/psyciatrist. If you can get him there that would be amazing, but don't hold your breath...

My friend (Christy) and her guy (Mike) have been dating for a while. We've all been going to church together, and he's a nice guy. They have not been sexually involved and are planning to wait until marriage. His roommate situation isn't...