I totally agree with the above comments. PRAYER is definitely needed here...which I'm sure you have been doing. Your husband is disrespecting you and needs to know this. He knows you are not comfortable with the woman and their relationship. Your husband needs to let this woman go and trust that God will help her in 'HIS' way. I was in the same situation with my ex-husband. He would talk on the phone with a woman for hours at a time...sometimes late at night. I could hear their conversations, so i know it wasn't really anything going on, but I knew that over time...it would grow into something else. I shared with my husband that I was not comfortable with this and how it was, also, sending the wrong message to the woman that it's ok for a husband to act this way when he has a wife. He didn't like what I had to say and brushed me off. I went to him AGAIN and shared my being uncomfortable...still nothing. I eventually went to a good friend of his at our church and told him what was going on and he agreed that he needed to stop. My ex listened to his friend and toned it down. I say all this to say that sometimes we have to get others involved when nothing else is working. You mentioned that your husband tells this woman that you are jealous, shares your intimate 'marital' arguments....etc..... he should NOT be saying any of this to this woman, let alone disregarding your feelings on the matter. This is nothing but the devil trying to get to you working through your husband. Pray for him, pray for yourself that you don't get wrapped up and caught in this 'trap' that the devil is trying to lure you into. You need to hold onto your God and spirituality. Even pray for this woman...because it is obvious that satan is using her, as well, to get you off spiritual focus.
I will pray for you and your situation. I know God will see you through this!
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IamKoala
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