Hi, I understand how you may feel. What would be best is to separate yourself from this relationship and really seek the Lord about it.
In the beginning, relationships are very nice but the longer you stay in them, the more you learn about yourself and the other person. If you are not strong right now when you get deeper into the relationship and problems come, you may not know how to deal with it. You are going to have to be ok with yourself before you will be ok in a relationship with someone else.
I have been single for 4 years now. It is not easy because I would love to have someone in my life. I pray everyday for God to bring the right person in my life. I am waiting on the Lord. And that is what I suggest to you. Pray to the Lord, Jesus and ask him to help you and strengthen you so you can be prepared for a relationship.
I was feeling the same way about a guy I really liked. I was worried and anxious all the time about him because I did not think I was good enough. You know what happened? Well, he found a job in another state and moved there, I mean really far away. It hurt so bad. All I could think is 'Why?'
It is because God wanted me to trust him. He wants to be #1 in our lives. He cannot if we put other people or things in his place.
Start reading your Bible (if you are not already) & Stop worrying about things out of your control. The Gospel of John is a good place to start. This book of the Bible will show you how much God really loves you.
Also, start doing volunteer work at a church or help someone you know is in need. This will get your mind off of yourself and on the God and doing his will, which is helping others and sharing the Gospel with them.
Then just think of all of the things God has helped you with. Give the Lord thanks for where you are today. Even if it is just one thing, thank him for that. It may be hard at first but you can do it.
Gradually you will see yourself, God and others in a different light, Which will improve your relationships.
God Bless You!
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